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Sex Ed Is Vital

As Told By: Heather

Hello, my name is Heather. I have had twenty non-stop years of public school. Growing up in small-town Idaho, I was not exposed to very many "worldly" events. However, the public school system did include sex-ed classes, starting in fifth grade and continuing on until freshman/sophomore year of high school. Looking back, I guess the information that we learned was appropriate for our age level, moving from basic physical changes to safe-sex and pregnancy prevention. Really, most of my information came from my mom in regards to physical changes; more on sexuality was disclosed as I matured.

My mother impressed a strong absentenance view while growing up, and my father still thinks I'm a 24-year-old virgin. My first sexual experience was when I was sixteen; I used protection and was dating in a monogamous relationship. From that point, I realized that birth-control and female health needed to be addressed. I was constantly getting UTIs and not knowing what they were or where they were from. The health professionals were very discrete about the cause and didn't come out and ask me about my sexual status because my mother was present.

As an adult and a social worker, I see sex education as paramount in the public school system. Of course, abstaining from sexual contact is the only sure way to be 100% clear of STIs, pregnancy, and emotional distress. But looking at the facts, this is rarely an acceptable choice for young people. Viewing their experiences as "immoral and damaging" sends a very profound message: that they should not experience their sexuality until society finds them ready. Really, individuals will ultimately choose when they are ready, if given the facts and resources to access measures that increase safety. I believe that birth control should be free of charge and openly available to anyone who wants it. This includes young men to access it for their partners if she is unable to. I also think condoms and access to healthcare professionals needs to be expected and nurtured. Changing the climate around these issues will also change the frequency of abortions and unwanted pregnancies. STIs would also decline, and I believe a sense of control and dignity would be restored to young people, especially young women.

We have the right!